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[2026-04-11] // 4 MIN READ

Reading as a conversation

#reading#writing

I used to finish books and feel proud of the number. Then a year later someone would ask what I thought of one, and I’d realise I couldn’t remember the argument — only that I’d liked it. The number was a lie I was telling myself.

So I started writing a sentence or two after every book. Not a review. Not even notes, really. Just what stuck. One paragraph, sometimes two. Filed under the title.

The change has been bigger than I expected.

Three things it did

  1. It made reading slower. Knowing I had to say something at the end, I read with the question already open. The book started talking back.
  2. It made my taste sharper. Looking at the stack of one-paragraph reactions, I can see what I actually respond to — versus what I claim to.
  3. It built a personal library of ideas. When a friend mentions a topic I’ve read on, I have a paragraph waiting. Not a great paragraph. But better than “I read something about that once.”

The bookshelf on this site is the result. It’s not a recommendation engine. It’s a record of conversations.